My Story
I Was A
Victim Too
For a long time, I didn't have the words for what was happening to me. I was a professional, a leader, someone other people came to for answers. The idea that I was experiencing domestic abuse didn't fit the story I told myself — or the one society tells about men.
But that's exactly the point. Domestic abuse doesn't care about your job title, your confidence, or how strong you appear. It operates in silence, in private, behind closed doors — and for men, that silence is even thicker because we're told, explicitly and implicitly, that we can't be victims.
Speaking about my experience has been the most difficult and most important thing I've ever done. It has cost me. It has also given me something I didn't expect: purpose.
That's why Mind Games Media exists. Not to seek sympathy. But to use my voice — while I have it — to make sure other men know they're not alone, and that speaking up is not weakness. It's the bravest thing you'll ever do.
If this resonates, let's talk
